3 Little Things That’ll Dramatically Improve Your Bond with Your Partner

Improving your bond with your partner should not only be on an emotional level but also on a neurological level. Because you don’t always feel emotionally connected with your partner. Sometimes you need to take a conscious step towards bringing yourself closer to your lover. This is why you need to target your heart as well as your head. This way you can dramatically improve the level of closeness and connection in your relationship.

Emotional Flooding to Spark Intimacy

Our brain is wired to focus on the negative. So it’s natural for the couple to forget about the good times that they’ve shared together. Doing “positive memories flooding” experience activates dopamine and oxytocin that rekindle the intimate bond between partners.

Improving the bond with your partner

Take turns to share your three positive memories of the relationship. Make it a weekly habit. The more you train your brain to recall the positives, the easier it will become each time.

Ultimately, what we’re teaching the brain to do here is to rewire neuropathways into making closeness and intimacy your everyday experiences.

This exercise has been so powerful for my clients that in some cases it helped people save their marriage and dissolved their desire to ask for a divorce.

Seducing Your Partner’s Brain 

Another way you can strengthen your relationship regardless of your busy business schedule is to physically relive your positive memories. Visit those memorable places you’ve been to before.

It can be the place where you first met, had a romantic and sexy dinner, had great sex, where you spent your first anniversary or had a passionate kiss while on your everyday walk.

When There is Too Much Distance Between You

What some couples find challenging is to access the positive memories especially when the relationship hasn’t been that great. Some anger or frustration and emotional abuse have built up, which might make it difficult to do an Emotional Flooding experiences right away.

This is why it would be best to start with seducing your brain first into thinking positively.

Imagine going to the restaurant where you’d had an amazing date before. You can’t help but be reminded of that passionate date night experience. The next thing you’ll realize your partner and you’ll talk about that memory while also being present there physically.

Romantic Getaway to Reignite Intimacy

Working with a lot of successful business professionals and being one myself, I know the destructive power stress can have on your sex life and emotional intimacy.

This is why it becomes beneficial to spend some time away from work or other things that’s been keeping your attention away from each other. This shouldn’t be the main way you rekindle your intimacy in your relationship, but it’s a great start.

Finding your way back to each other

Ideally, you want to be able to flood yourself with positive memories to find each other again, but you have to start somewhere. Having a romantic getaway will be your gradual start towards making your relationship stress proof.

Some time alone together will help you both remember the way you felt about each other then. Once you’ll have this starting point you can take it to the next level by first seducing your partner’s brain and then doing an emotional flooding exercise.

I know sometimes it feels like you’ve drifted too far away from your partner. The guilt and shame around it prevent you from connecting with the person you love the most.

Get Men Accept You as You Are

When you’ve experienced a sense of helpless, no control, and powerlessness that comes from being in an abusive and toxic relationship, you know the feeling you get inside you once you get yourself out of it. The feeling of NO MORE and NEVER AGAIN. Your whole soul makes a commitment to never get into a relationship where you’re taken for granted, where you’re controlled by a man, or where you have no voice to make a decision.

With that commitment, another problem tends to show up. You start noticing that men you’re dating right now want to change you. They feel intimidated by your new success and independence. You can’t help but wonder how to get them to accept you for who you are.

I want to help you find this answer. It won’t be the answer you’re expecting, but it’ll give you a new perspective to see the reality for what it is. Because over 7 years I’ve seen successful women repeat the same pattern again and again after they come out of a nasty divorce with a narcissist.

They’re so scared of getting into the same helpless position again that after the divorce they jump into another extreme of independence and control. No matter what they try, they still end up in a wrong relationship where men either disappear or don’t connect on an intimate level. So why can’t women find the right way to solve their presenting problem?

Focusing on a wrong problem, or not a problem at all

One of the core reasons why we can’t solve a problem is because we’re not dealing with the actual problem. I know it sounds counterintuitive but it’s so true. We do so because facing the real problem would mean feeling the real pain that comes with it. As a way to avoid it, we come up with surface problems that feel lighter. But this approach is so detrimental to our happiness for a few reasons:

It’s not painful enough

We’ll do more to avoid pain than experience pleasure. The surface problem tends to not be emotional and painful enough to take the necessary action. For instance, “I want to get men to accept me for who I am” is not as powerful and serious as “The pain I experienced in my previous marriage instilled so much fear in me that I keep pushing away men anytime I feel out of control.”

No place for motivation

With the surface problem, we blame men for not appreciating us. It’s their problem, not ours. Let them do the work. We’re perfectly fine. Plus, the formulation of the problem doesn’t create enough urgency to take action and do something about it.

They don’t trust me

They don’t trust me not as in trusting my ability to help them, but rather because they see their problem differently. When I start showing the connection between their broken marriage, unhealed post-divorce trauma, and the present, they just don’t understand it. They dismiss it. They don’t hear it. This is why perception is a key in facing the real cause of pain in life, especially when dealing with divorce or breakup.

Finding the solution when nothing worked

So if you’re struggling to find a way to get men to accept you for who you are, then I’m inviting you to reflect back and see if you’re facing the truth. Because there is a reason why they find you intimidating. I know denial can be tempting because it’s just another way to not feel the pain that is so excruciating.

But the truth is just because you numbed your pain it doesn’t mean it isn’t there. It is. It shows up differently. In this case, it shows up as a problem of you not being in a loving relationship. You not being able to meet the man who loves you and respects what you have to offer to a relationship.

Stop being so hard on yourself for a wrong reason

Be honest with yourself because the truth will set you free. The first step to making a change is realizing that you were focusing on the wrong problem. Once the realization is here, you’ve already made the first step.

Don’t judge yourself for not seeing it right away. Don’t use this opportunity for growth as another chance to be hard on yourself and feel shame and guilt because of it. Rather celebrate it. You’re one step closer to where you want to be.

Finding strength to heal post-divorce trauma

The next step is to accept that you can’t deal with this on your own. You can’t. Not because you’re not strong enough or you’re weak. But rather because YOU’RE STRONG and WISE enough to know better the next time. To know better this time. I’m here for you. You’re hungry for change and healing because you’re here on my website, reading this post. It means the time has come. Cease the moment. Don’t let time run away from you.

5 Signs Your Breakup Was for Good or Bad

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Breakups hurt. I thought I’d grow older and it won’t hurt as bad only to find out that the heartbreak pain doesn’t decrease with age. It hurt when I was fourteen as much as it did later in my life. I also see it from working with women who’re healing or going through a divorce. When the pain is overwhelming it’s extremely hard to see the positive lessons that breakup gives you. But they’re there if you really want to see them. Here’re the 7 signs your breakup was for the best.

1.Your Worst Fears Come True

The tipping point for many people is the realization that their relationships are bringing out the worst in them and their partners. You start turning into your parents, who might have been fighting all of your childhood. One day you made yourself a promise to NEVER become them, yet you catch yourself in a relationship that isn’t far from what you’ve been trying to escape.

Instead of losing yourself in self-doubt or self-criticism, give yourself a huge hug for letting go of something that didn’t serve you. You’re the maker of your life. That breakup gave you an opportunity to find yourself again.

2.The Bad Times Outweigh The Good Ones

How many times were you giving this relationship a second chance? You were hoping that it’ll work out. You even went to couples therapy. You tried to compromise, understand each other’s point of view, and make it work. But one night you were taken by surprise – by a wave of realization that the silence and the distance between you two have been growing wider and more painful.

The pain starts to overpower and erase the good memories. Even dining out with your friends becomes an unpleasant experience because you see what you’re missing on. When you know in your heart that the bad has become the new norm for your relationship, then it’s a sign that leaving the relationship was the right choice. Bear in mind that RIGHT doesn’t necessarily mean PAINLESS. 

3.Nothing You Tried Is Making Things Better

A client of mine, Laura, couldn’t any longer deny that something was missing in her marriage. She found herself staying late at her demanding business, dental practice, all while resenting her husband.

During those nights at the office, she would recall everything that they tried to save their marriage. Therapy and heart-to-heart conversations hadn’t changed things. Compromising and trying to become “better” persons also didn’t help.

It actually only made Laura forget who she truly was. It got to the point where even a light breath of her husband made her crazy.

When in your heart you know that you’ve tried everything you could without sacrificing your self-value and self-esteem, then give yourself permission to face the reality. Sometimes relationships don’t work out. If on your way of trying to save a relationship you realize that you’ve lost yourself than the divorce is the gift you give yourself.

4.The Movie You Don’t Want Your Kids To See

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard from women that they stayed in a relationship because of the kids. Because they didn’t want to hurt them by going through a divorce. But it’s not fair to blame a 5-year-old for your decision to stay in a relationship that is torture.

When you’re letting your children see the fights, the distance, the coldness, and that neglect, it’s far from setting a good example for your children, isn’t it? It’s not even an ok example. It’s a BAD example. Your fear makes your children pay for the lack of your action.

Your kids are seeing you – THEIR ROLE MODEL – being mistreated or mistreating their father, devalued, emotionally abused or neglected. Instead of worrying about hurting them, you need to realize that you’re ALREADY hurting them. You worry should be that they’ll seek out this type of relationship when they grow up.

5.Repeating The History

When you catch yourself in a relationship that is just a replica of the toxic relationships you were surrounded by when growing up, you know that leaving that relationship is the life-changing step.

Why? Because when you’re treated a certain way that is abusive and disrespectful right from an early age, you get immune to it. When you get immune to it, you think that the way you’re treated is OK. But it’s not.

Your work becomes about unlearning thinking that you were supposed to be treated this way. Otherwise, I see the most successful women become hopeless and depressed about the relationship.

The #1 Reason Most Guys Fail Miserably with Women

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When most men approach an attractive woman that they want to go out on a date with, they’re totally clueless what to do.

This can cause you to overthink the situation.

Which triggers the worst (and least appropriate) psychological response imaginable.

Fight or flight.

When men get nervous, our caveman brains kick in. 

It assumes that we must be nervous because there’s a predator nearby.

This makes our brain produce adrenaline like crazy, with predictable consequences.

Shaky hands.

Trembling voice.

A complete inability to hold a casual conversation.

But this week I’m going to show you how to avoid this nervous response.

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In the video above, I show you my proven techniques that I’ve used with my clients for years to help them overcome this fear.

And the result? 

You can take your flirting game to a whole new level.

It might even be easier than you think.

Forget “game.” Forget pick-up lines. Forget complicated strategies and psychological tricks. 

Learn the simplest and easiest method to achieve a more satisfying dating life in record time.

The #1 Reason Most Guys Fail Miserably with Women

Watch the video above to discover the easiest way to talk to women, score more dates, and get more s*x.

The #1 Reason Most Guys Fail Miserably with Women

In this video, you’re going to learn:

  • The BIGGEST MISTAKE Most Guys Make When Flirting with Women
  • The Secret to Why Some Men Drive Women Crazy and Why Others are a Total Snoozefest
  • How to Get Into the Perfect Mental Headspace to Flirt with Hot Girls Effortlessly
  • Flirting 101: The Dynamics of a Fun and Flirty Conversation with Nines and Tens
  • The Ultimate Touch Secrets to Unlocking Any Woman’s Secret Desire
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Flirting Without Words

Once you’re good and relaxed… you’re ready to interact with a hot girl you see. 

Notice I don’t say “talk”… “interact” is a much better word… since talking isn’t going to get you anywhere fast. 

In fact talking is the LEAST important part of flirting, because non-verbal communication makes up an astounding 93% of communication. 

This ESPECIALLY rings true if you’re trying to turn her on…

Think about it, you think she’s going to get wet from a funny joke you make? No!

Instead of talking to turn her on and get her to like you… it’s all about how you touch her.

Don’t worry! There’s nothing creepy or Jeffery Epstein about this at all. It’s so subtle she’ll barely notice you’ve touched her at all.

And if you know this 3-step touch sequence I’ve personally tested to bang over 400 hot girls… then it makes it so that you can talk about the weather… 

Or a TV show… 

Or anything at all… 

Since she’ll be getting so hot and horny for you… she’ll have trouble concentrating on anything other than wanting your hands all over her body, and your manhood deep inside her. 

And let’s be honest: I’m not a great catch. 

As a matter of fact I’m pretty below average in the looks department. 

I’m pudgy… bald… and I still have a thick accent…

I’m not rich either. 

But this 3-step touch sequence has gotten me laid with hot blonde girls more than 400 times! 

Because none of that superficial stuff matters if you can turn her on. 

Click here to check it out now to check out this 3 step touch sequence that gets women dripping wet and aching for you to be inside her.

College Girl Reveals the #1 Way to Ask Her Out (Perfect for Older Guys)

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College is a wonderfully strange place.

As a girl who’s currently in college, I’ve realized a few things over the years.

First, college campuses have become a sort of “safe zone” for students to feel comfortable meeting new people without the pressure of the “bar scene” or the awkwardness of meeting on the street.

And this might surprise you, but in my experience… I actually want more guys to approach me!

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Just walking part of the way to class with me is enough for me to know if I want something more.

(I don’t tell many people this, but I’ve even taken the longer way to my classes just to pass by a couple more guys.)

Of course, there’s always a chance I won’t be interested if you talk to me — but you might be surprised what you find out if you try.

Plus, if I like and respect you as a person, then I’ll definitely be telling my cute, single friends about you later. 🙂

So today, I’m going to show you exactly how to meet and ask out college girls, without ever risking rejection.

The #1 Key to Approaching College Girls Without Scaring Them Away

The key to truly piquing my interest, or the interest of any college girl, is to be confident without being too assertive.

There’s a fine line between bold and forceful, and it’s important to straddle it with care.

Now, there are definitely some gray areas when it comes to the signs that a woman is into you, but Gotham Club expert David Dupree has recently revealed a foolproof way to let a woman know you’re interested without being overly aggressive.

So keep reading, because I’m about to show you the 3-step “formula” to ask out a college girl that will maximize your chances of success.

1) Use Your Surroundings to Your Advantage

As you probably already know, to start any good conversation, you need an opener.

Your opening line should be non-threatening and even innocent so that the girl on the receiving end feels comfortable continuing the conversation with you.

Luckily, there are numerous ways to do this on a college campus. The trick is to take advantage of your environment.

Most campuses have important artifacts on campus that are specific to the university’s history — these artifacts are scattered all over the campus. It can be anything from a statue…

To a commemorative bench…

Or even a tree.

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Pick one, and remember it.

If you can’t find any artifacts, look around at the buildings. Find a map and locate a relatively obscure building — keep the name of the building in mind.

And here’s what to do next:

2) Ask a Question & Walk Away (Seriously)

Yes, you read that right — you’re going to walk away.

But first, you need to establish a simple connection.

This is where it’s important to use your blind confidence — simply walk up to her with your “artifact” or building in mind, and ask her:

“Hey, do you know where [name of artifact/building] is?”

You don’t need to lead with your name or have any sort of formal introduction. Just play it safe and ask the question — it does all the work for you.

And because this is a casual, first-time interaction, it’s important not to take it too seriously.

Approach her with a smile and stand up tall — because you’re not actually asking her on a date, there’s zero pressure on you to perform.

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I repeat: you are not asking her on a date. Keep this in mind.

You’re just a normal guy, talking to a normal girl.

This opening line works because it allows her to sympathize with you. Everyone has been in this position before: Lost and having to ask random people for directions. Chances are she’ll be willing to at least help you out (if not introduce herself to you).

So what next?

After she tells you where to go, this is your cue to walk away.

It Doesn’t End There…

Even if you keep talking to her, keep walking.

This works because it’s strategic — you’re getting out of your head, and you’re presenting yourself as a non-threat to her.

It might sound counterintuitive, but trust me. As a college girl, this is the best thing you can do to maximize your odds of success.

So after you ask a few girls where something is, your next step is to find a place to sit down.

Make sure this is an area of constant traffic. Here are a few good examples:

  • A local coffee shop…
  • The library…
  • A courtyard…
  • In the grass…

Wherever — when you find it, pop a squat.

Sooner or later, the woman you talked to earlier will be likely to pass by, while you are already in the perfect spot for her to notice you.

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If she sees you, she’ll recognize you as the man she helped. This gives her all the more reason to approach you. 🙂

And now you can have that meaningful conversation you probably expected to have earlier.

Doing this works, because only the girls who actually want to know more about you will approach you here. It’s a win/win.

3) Don’t Give Up

Now that you’ve started getting the hang of the technique, it’s time to perfect it. And as with anything, practice makes perfect!

What’s great about this process is that, unlike with other methods, it’s 100% risk-free. You give the choice completely to the woman, so she won’t see you as “forward” or “aggressive.”

Because of this, you are free to practice without fear of failure.

And once you’ve got a college girl hooked, of course you’re going to want to impress her in bed. I know it can seem intimidating — jumping into bed with a hot, younger woman.

But it doesn’t have to be… not when you’ve got this sexual “secret weapon” in your arsenal:

College Girl Reveals the #1 Way to Ask Her Out (Perfect For Older Guys)

4) The #1 Way to Impress a College Girl In Bed…

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone home with a lacrosse player or frat bro… only to be suuuuper disappointed by his performance in bed. 🙁

Like the last guy I went home with… the 6’5” center on the basketball team. He lasted 30 freaking seconds. UGH!!!

And I’m not the only one — all my girlfriends agree… most college-age guys just don’t know how to sexually satisfy us. Almost like they just don’t care.

And then there was Alan…. oh, Alan.

I met him in the campus coffee shop, after he told me my shoelace was untied (whoops lol)… he wasn’t as tall as the guys I usually date, and he was a little older too…

But after talking for a while… I decided to ask him out for a drink (he was just so composed & mature… a total breath of fresh air from the college guys I’m used to).

Well, one thing led to another… and we ended up back at my dorm… and Oh. My. GOD.

I had no idea a guy his age could pleasure me like that!!! Honestly, he wasn’t even that big *down there*… but he blew every college guy I had slept with completely out of the water.

“Mmmmmmm, Alan, that was incredible,” I said to him afterward… “Did you, like, take a supplement or something beforehand?”

He chuckled & pulled out his phone… “It’s not a weird prescription or sketchy drug if that’s what you’re asking… here, this should help explain it.”

I saw the words “Briana Banks, Alana Evans, & Edyn Blair Reveal…” and assumed it was porn… but it’s not! And in fact, I was surprised to see Alan’s “secret” is totally legit:

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Maybe you’ve got a certain girl in mind or you just want to sleep with new women…

Regardless, it would be nice to know the answer to a very simple question:

“What’s the quickest way to get a woman to sleep with you?”

For those of you who know me, you know I like to cut the bullsh*t and get down to business with women ASAP

And after tons of trial and error, I figured out the perfect time frame and technique to get this done.

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That’s what today’s video is all about.

Now, I can’t be the personal wingman to help every guy get this done in person…

So I want to share this exclusive info as a step-by-step guide that you can reference whenever you need it.

This video guide explains the perfect sweet spot between moving too fast or too slow… and you can start using it right away…

But if you’re reading this before getting to the action in the video, I’ll introduce myself for those who don’t know me.

Hi, I’m Magic Leone. As a dating expert, it’s safe to say I know a lot about attracting women.

I get asked questions about sex & women a lot–and so today, I’m answering this one:

“What’s the fastest way to get a girl you just met to have sex with you?”

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In this video, I explain exactly how to have sex with women as fast as possible, PLUS:

  • A step-by-step explanation on how to seduce women in 1 hour or less (any guy can do this)…
  • The key spots on a woman’s body to subtly touch to turn her on quickly…
  • The #1 mistake most guys make in the workplace when seducing women & how to always avoid it…
  • My personal technique that gets women and their friends comfortable and more sexually open around you…
  • How to ask her personal questions that generate strong sexual tension…

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I really mean it:

The technique I showed you in the video is by far the fastest & most effective way to get sex in under 60 minutes.

And quite often this can mean sex in public… or your car… or even in an office bathroom!

(This really happened to one of my students haha)

And so when you’re with a woman, and she’s right there, ready to give herself to you… no matter where you are…

… you’re gonna wanna make sure NOTHING gets in the way of your performance… including anything that might distract you, or potentially kill the mood.

So for MAX hardness and stamina at any moment… I strongly urge you to try this.

It’s an adult film industry secret I was taught by a close mentor… who also happens to be the World’s Oldest Pornstar.

This secret is how he gets it up in seconds… and stays hard for hours… often surrounded by cameras, and while having sex with multiple girls half his age.

Honestly, this secret is pretty shocking though… and it’s definitely NOT safe for work haha…

… so we made this short video to show you the secret, so you can start using it right away:

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Hey it’s Magic, one of Gotham Club’s experts.

So in this video today, I’m going to talk about what to do when you get mixed signals from a girl.

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I’m going to tell you how to identify mixed signals from a girl, and then understand why she’s playing hard to get. 

We’ll then explore what your choices are and how you can handle the situation. 

So with that, let’s get started. 

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Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…

In my experience, there are three types of women who play hard to get. 

There are many different situations in which a woman plays hard to get, so sometimes it can be difficult to tell what they really desire.

Here are the three types:

1) Attention Magnets

The first type of woman is just a woman who wants attention. 

She wants a man she cannot have.

So she might flirt with you… but the minute you start to show her attention, she will back off.

And then once you back off, she will come back. 

This type of woman does not want to take it to the next level.

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2) Keepers

The second type of woman who likes to play hard to get is someone who is genuinely interested in you. 

She is genuinely attracted to you and wants to talk to you. 

However, maybe you came on a little too strong… and that scared her and so she backed off. 

So it’s not that she wanted to play games, but she just got scared off for some reaso. And so she decided to pull back. 

Sometimes this may come across like she’s playing hard to get, but in reality, she just wants to slow things down.

And that’s why she has taken a step back. 

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3) The Timid Ones

The third type of woman that plays hard to get is a woman who has had a bad experience in the past. 

So when you flirt with her, ask her out on a date, send her a text message, whatever… she’s always trying to be very slow with the responses. 

She’s very careful. 

She’s just not willing to commit but hasn’t quite completely backed off. 

But she’s also not taking a step forward. 

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These are the three situations where you might be met with a woman who is playing hard to get. 

The first one is very obviously just wanting attention. 

The other two are purely mixed signals. You can usually get these women in bed.

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What Not To Do When She’s Playing Hard To Get (ESPECIALLY If She’s Just Shy)…

One thing that’s very important, is this woman should never feel like you’re a player. 

She should just know that you’re cool…

You’re not going to push her or pressure her… and syou’re not going to chase her, but you’re also not running away. 

And what I mean by that is, if you’re talking to her and then you start talking to your friend to give her some space, this should not come across like you’re hitting on your friend now. 

She should not see you flirting with someone else, because then she will think you’re not serious about her. 

This is because she is serious about you and she likes you.

It’s just that she got scared. 

(Try out this step by step formula to turn her on even if you aren’t her “type.”)

How To Maintain Her Comfort Level So She Lets Her Guard Down…

Basically, you have to maintain her comfort level. 

Someone who is already playing hard to get will also be very careful on an actual date. 

So if you go on the date and you try to kiss her, she might give you a quick pat to not to be rude.

But then she might back off. 

She might tell you, “Hey, I don’t do this on the first date, I take things slowly.”

 All those things are not playing hard to get. 

It’s just that she needs more time to relax around you. 

One of the things I find works best in that situation is to show her some vulnerability. 

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If I see a woman is having a hard time trusting me, I try to share something from my life.

I share something that might be embarrassing for me, something that I normally wouldn’t share with the average person. 

They then will immediately think that if I’m bringing them into my zone and I’m sharing these very personal, intimate, embarrassing, wonderful stories… that I must trust them and I must like them or I wouldn’t do that. 

With a woman that is a little skittish, all you have to do is build that comfort zone where she feels okay and she no longer thinks you are a player.

Then it’s no longer awkward between the two of you. 

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That’s Not All…

So a crucial element of this is not to get emotional if you’re getting mixed signals from a girl. 

Don’t get reactive. 

Just let her do her thing. 

Be cool, be calm, and make her realize that it’s all okay. 

Everything is going to be okay. 

Worst case scenario, things don’t work out and everything will be okay the minute she feels comfortable around you.

She will relax. She will open up and things will start moving forward. 

So once again, you have to make her relax, you have to make her feel comfortable, and make her realize that she can continue to do this and everything will be okay. 

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It’s also important to remember that you chose to continue with this person. 

So if you continue with this person, you have to recognize the state she’s in. 

And if you want to continue your relationship with her, you have to work from where she is and not where you want them to be. 

So you will gradually lead ther to where you want her to be, all the while being patient and aware of her needs.

Here’s the fastest technique I know to do that:

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How To Blow Past Her Tests With Ease (And Get Her In Bed)…

Once you’ve decided you’re gonna push through her tests… congratulations man!

I’ve found that this is often the most “fun” part of getting a hot girl in bed for one reason:

You get to “turn the tables” on her… and make HER chase YOU!

It feels REALLY good to do this.. especially if she’s been really “distant” or “cold”…

Knowing that within a couple hours, she’ll be in your bed… naked… and screaming your name so loud it wakes up the neighbors.

This technique is really simple… really easy to learn… and fun as hell to use to get hot “out of your league” girls in bed…

And I made a video showing you EVERYTHING about it (how to do it, when to use it, and why it works so well) right here:

Click here to discover my “Change Her Mind Formula” that allows you to beat any woman’s “tests”… and bang her.

She Says She “Needs Space”? Here’s What To Do (Expert Opinion)…

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Women can be so hard to understand sometimes.

Take the concept of “needing space” for example:

WTF does that even mean?

Sure, if a girl says she “needs some space”… it might mean she just wants some more alone time… but what if she says she “needs some space,” but means something else entirely?

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Is there a way to get her back? Is it even possible?

That’s what I want to talk about today.

Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce–and as part of my new series, Ask Glenn, I’m answering all of your most difficult, burning questions that keep you up at night.

And today, I’m answering this one:

“What does it mean when a girl says she ‘needs space’?”

Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…

OK, our next question is from Kyle. And before I even answer it, Kyle, man, you’re probably not gonna like my answer.

Kyle says:

Hey Glenn, I have a problem with this girl–let’s call her ‘Sarah.’ I was with her for 15 months and the sex was great.

We both like sci-fi movies and other similarly nerdy things. Out of the blue last week, she says that she needs some space and wants to slow things down.

WTF man? I’m 28 and she’s 25, if that makes a difference. This girl is perfect for me–I know we’re meant to be together.

So how can I get her back?

I’ve seen enough of your videos that my guess is that you’ll tell me to move on, haha. But what if I have a reason to believe that she wants to get back with me?

Her friends have told me that. So how do I go about getting this wonderful woman back?”

Alright, Kyle. Here’s my advice:

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What She REALLY Means When She Says She “Needs Space”…

First of all, Kyle, you’re pedestalizing this wonderful woman.

Kyle, you’re saying the sex was great. But Sarah’s not here–I would love to hear what she has to say about the sex. OK?

Now, here’s the part you’re not gonna like, and it might make you sick to your stomach. But I’m here to give you the honest truth.

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When a woman says she “needs space,” and it’s out of the blue, then she’s probably been cheating on you.

Almost guaranteed, she’s been sleeping with somebody else. And this guy now takes precedence over you.

Because the truth is, women rarely leave a relationship without a backup plan.

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At the end of the day, women are very emotionally unstable. And they get self-worth from the attention that men give them.

So it’s very rare–even if she’s a wonderful woman–it’s very rare that a woman will walk away from a 15-month relationship out of the blue and not have another man in her life.

I know women. Trust me–this girl is probably sleeping with somebody else.

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She’ll tell one story to some of her friends. Like she’s gonna say, “Oh, well you know, I don’t know… I’m only 25, I think I need to grow more as a woman.”

And then she’s gonna have another set of friends who are very close to her–these friends know the real truth. OK?

Not only that, but you don’t know if her friends are telling you the truth.

So her friends are probably just trying to make you feel good.

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Is It Possible to Get Her Back?

So what I would do is–you guessed it–tell you to move on.

You could even go out and f**k a bunch of girls, and then make sure Sarah finds out about it. Make sure her friends know too.

But maybe you guys aren’t meant for each other at this point in your life. In that case, it’s best to ignore her.


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If you really want to know, once and for all, if she truly “needs space”… or is just lying to you…

…Then I do have one more trick up my sleeve.

Here’s what it is:

5 “Last Chance” Texts to Get Her Back…

If you’re dead-set on getting her back… then I do have one final technique up my sleeve for you:

It’s this list of 5 texts that tend to get an almost-immediate reply (usually within 2-3 minutes)… and seem to rekindle a woman’s sexual interest in you.

Because honestly, there are TONS of lines you can find for texting a girl who won’t respond… and 99% of them just don’t work.

As a matter of fact the majority of those lines are untested, and often get rejected quickly as a result… (even if she secretly WAS into you before).

But these messages are different.

They’re unique, and few guys know them… though they have been thoroughly tested… both by myself and the guys I personally coach…

And they work REALLY well to get a girl to:

So if a woman has told you that she “needs some space”… or if she’s behaving in a really confusing way… or if you think you may lose her soon…

Then just try these texts out man… and I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised:

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In this video, I reveal the TRUTH about texting your ex, plus:

  • How to figure out if you REALLY want her back…
  • What you need to know about texting women after a breakup…
  • The perfect thing to do after a relationship is over…
  • What to say & do when you’re around her…
  • What to do if you want to get over her immediately

The Best Advice I Can Possibly Give You…

Like I said in the video, I don’t mince words… and I make a point of only giving you the god-honest truth.

Yeah, telling you to just “move on” might seem like a little “tough love”… but that doesn’t mean I’m gonna leave you hanging man.

So instead of focusing only on ONE woman… maybe it might help you to see just how many single, horny women are into you right now… this very second?

It might sound crazy… but it’s true:

Women check guys out just as often as we do them!

However, they’re super discreet about it… so when they see a guy they’re into… 95% of the time, they play “coy” or act all “shy.”

And yet… they WILL give off these “tells”… or “signs.” Whatever you wanna call them.

Now listen, because what I’m about to tell you is very important:

If you know these signs… then it opens up a whole new world of sexual possibilities for you… because you’ll notice more and more women are secretly checking you out… almost everywhere you go.

However, if you aren’t sure what these signs are… then you may be missing out on dozens of women who are interested in you every single day.

Yeah, these signs are pretty subtle… and that’s why my buddy and Gotham Club Founder, Craig, made this short video to show you what they are.

Knowing these signs will help you get a new woman into bed sooner than you ever thought possible:

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[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on November 28, 2020.]

Craig’s Challenge — Develop Your Fitness Routine

Craig’s Challenge — Develop Your Fitness Routine

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Hey guys, it’s Craig with today’s weekly challenge: Develop your fitness routine.

I asked a fitness expert to lend a hand with this challenge, here are the tips he provided:

Your first task is to identify your body type.

Are you a skinny guy A.k.a. ectomorph

A heavy-set guy? A.k.a. endomorph

Or in-between? A.k.a. mesomorph

Your body type will inform what’s best for you and your goals.

In general, endomorphs should focus on cardio, endurance, and clean eating while cutting calories.

Meanwhile, ectomorphs should do almost no cardio except warm-ups, and instead focus on building lean muscle through strength training and increasing their caloric intake.

If you’re in-between, congratulations! You’re the best of both worlds and can dabble in a little bit of everything.

Let’s get started by pointing out some of the lesser known benefits of working out and going to the gym.

The Sexual Benefits of Exercise

Beyond getting in shape, going to the gym offers a few bonus perks.

First off, the gym is an ideal place to pick up women if you know how to do it properly. 

As this female fitness trainer confesses, women WANT you to check them out at the gym and approach them!

Plus, certain exercises for just 40 minutes a day or less can actually help you last longer in bed.

Now, let’s discuss the workouts themselves.

Craig’s Challenge — Develop Your Fitness Routine

The Ectomorph Workout

Again, you want very little cardio because you don’t want to burn the small amount of fat you have. 

You want compound exercises that work a lot of muscle groups. 

I recommend starting out with low-weight 3 x 10 (3 sets of 10 reps) and as you gain strength and confidence you can work in 8 x 4, as well as the Texas Method (5 x 5) while slowly increasing the weight you’re using.

Think bench press, squats, and deadlifts as your primary lifts.

Bench day is upper body. Arms (biceps and triceps), chest, and shoulders (deltoids).

Deadlift day is back day. You’re going to be doing deadlifts, Romanian deadlifts and a bunch of different “rows.” Upright rows. Bent over rows. Etc.

And squat day is leg day. Work every major leg muscle. Hamstrings, calves, and quadriceps (quads). My favorite is:

  • Squat (3 x 10)
  • Front squat (3 x 10)
  • Romanian deadlift (3 x 10)
  • Seated calf raises (3 x 10)
  • Leg press (3 x 10)

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The Endomorph Workout

If you’re trying to lose weight, the first step is to improve what you eat. There’s an old saying that you can’t train out a bad diet and it’s certainly accurate.

Beyond that, you’re going to want to do a combination of cardio, including: 

Plus, high intensity interval training, commonly called HIIT.

For example, you can sprint up a flight of stairs or bleachers, then walk down, rest for 60 seconds, and repeat.

Sled pushes are another personal favorite.

With both exercise types, start off small so you build up endurance and confidence.

Just jog half a mile the first day, then work yourself up until you can do several miles in a single day.

Craig’s Challenge — Develop Your Fitness Routine

Use your “dad bod” to land a model.

In a few weeks, and a small ceremony, my good friend and former client, John, is getting married to this SMOKING hot and wonderful woman.

She’s gorgeous, fun, sweet, caring, smart… and has some killer dance moves. 

John is a loyal friend, he’s mega-reliable, he’s funny, caring, fun, adventurous, bold, and an all around a solid guy… so they make a pretty perfect couple. 

But most of the world doesn’t see that when they look at John…

They see a chubby, hairy, balding guy…

And yes… I’ll admit… the good looking buff guys have a very obvious advantage over the Johns of the world.

They have the advantage over the guys who are too skinny, too short, too hairy, too bald, or are just too “average”…

BUT it doesn’t mean that guys like us are out of the game, or that we have to settle. 

Despite popular belief women DO NOT care about your looks nearly as much as men care about a woman’s looks. 

(In fact, me telling you to get a fitness plan has NOTHING to do with your looks, and everything to do with boosting your sexual stamina and confidence…)

In my experience the fastest, and most effective way to get a woman to like you, get turned on by you, and even fall in love with you… is to use non-verbal communication to your advantage.

Particularly touch, especially when you first meet a woman, because the right kinds of touch REALLY turn women on. 

We’ve been programmed to believe that average men have the slimmest of chances to get with drop-dead gorgeous women… and if they want a gorgeous woman to fall for them they have to play the long game.

She has to date a series of good -looking losers before she realizes the perfect guy was right in front of her the whole time.

This is nonsense. 

Life isn’t like the movies. Hooking up and physical intimacy almost always come before love, not the other way around.

So if you want to land a beautiful woman, whether it be for a night or for the rest of your life… you have to get her emotions running high, and you’ve got to get her dripping wet.

And the fastest and most effective way that I, and thousands and thousands of guys like John, have landed the women of their dreams is by using touch the right way. 

Click here now and discover how to touch a woman in a way that makes her feel comfortable, while getting her dripping wet at the same time, even if she’s way out of your league. 

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What’s up?

Ruwando here for Gotham Club, and we have another Ask Ruwando question.

This is from Juan. Juan asks:

Hey, man, I’m a short guy and date mostly online. I get girls out on dates, but when they show up, I can often tell they’re disappointed.

Any pointers for short guys who wanna get laid more? Especially with these apps where I feel like every guys is 6’3″ and jacked like Arnold Schwarzenegger.”

All right, this is something I can empathize with a lot because I’m a very short guy.

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I’ve experienced this first hand where we matched on Tinder, she meets up with me. And maybe she’s 5’11”, and when she bends down to hug me, she’s like, “Oh. This guy’s only 5’6″.”

And I can notice the drop in attraction. So I can definitely empathize with this, but I’ll tell you, it’s not the end of the world.

I’m gonna share with you how to overcome this.

I’m not gonna sugarcoat it.

Height is a very attractive quality to women. If you ask women what they look for in a man physically, almost every woman is going to bring up height.

Because just like d!ck size and looks and muscularity and frame… pretty much every superficial thing you can think of, it does matter.

But it doesn’t matter as much as most people think.

And what really matters is how you make her feel.

A woman feels a certain way when she’s with a much taller man.

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She gets to feel held. She gets to feel more secure.

I mean, not a lot of women like to put it this way, but she gets to feel smaller, which allows her to feel safe.

It just triggers various positive things that are in her instinctual biology.

She wants to feel held and safe. And she gets to feel that when she’s with a much taller man, who she literally looks up to.

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So if you’re a shorter guy, like myself, you really need to learn how to “bring it.”

There’s no way to put it other than that, and it means you have to implement all the different things that you’re probably learning while watching this channel and different resources.

Checking out my stuff is learning how to become more attractive in ways you can actually control.

But you can’t make yourself taller, I don’t think.

However, you can learn how to pay better attention.

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You can learn how to be more humorous. You can learn how to be more confident. These are the things that I would say you should focus on.

That said, if height is specifically a thing that you’re noticing is tripping you up and preventing you from having success with women, it’s good to know what specifically that you get from height.

I just mentioned, they get to feel secure and held.

So addressing that specifically, there are some things you can control that can allow her to feel that way even though you can’t add 10 inches to your height.

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The specific traits in you that I would say to work on are leadership, security, confidence, and groundedness.

These are things that people tend to associate with physically bigger people because at one point in human history, they were synonymous.

A man’s ability to lead a tribe or keep a tribe safe literally came down to how well he could fight off intruders.

So there’s an evolutionary reason why we like height and people.

It’s why CEOs tend to be taller. But not all CEOs. But we tend to associate height with certain things–with power.

Now we know that in the modern day, that’s not that important, right?

How tall you are actually has nothing to do with your physical ability to lead a group or keep a woman safe or do any of those things.

So if you notice, use the CEO as an example.

Any shorter guy who takes leadership positions…

Any shorter person who has a lot of personal power or social influence really has to bring it–whereas a taller guy might be able to skimp on his attentiveness or his ability to lead.

If you’re a shorter guy, you really need to focus on these things to overcome on that.

And you certainly can, because again, it’s not about the perception. It’s how you make her feel.

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A side thing that you can work on is how to touch. Arousal trumps everything.

You know, she might have a rule about, “Oh I only want a guy who’s 6’4″.”

Or I only want a guy who has this or has a mustache or doesn’t have a mustache. Or something like that. But if she’s turned on, she’s gonna follow her feelings.

This is kind of true for all people, but women especially tend to be more in touch with their feelings.

And if you can have her feel really good, and have her feel like she’s in the presence of a leader, or a dominant man… that’s what works.

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But also on the physical level, if you can get her turned on with the way you touch her, that’ll kind of trump everything.

I mean, I’ve met a lot of women that literally would say to me, “Oh, I don’t sleep with shorter guys.”

And then we ended up hooking up. And it wasn’t because I convinced her rationally why we would be good sexual partners … she could overlook her shallowness.


I got her to be turned on. And then at that point she doesn’t really care about her rules. Right?

What she cares about is how she’s gonna feel. And you can affect that.

It doesn’t matter how tall you are, and here’s proof:

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Like I said, what women really care about is how you make them feel…

Which is great, because that’s something you can actually change (unlike your height).

And if you can make a woman feel safe and secure around you… and if you can make her feel aroused too…

… then 99 times out of 100, she’s gonna sleep with you, and she’s gonna sleep with you that night. (speaking from experience)

Though I haven’t exactly shown you HOW to do this.

Like if you’re in a dark lounge, or she’s literally towering above you in heels… how the hell are you supposed to “stand tall”… or make her feel secure?

How do you project the leadership quality of a CEO… while also turning her on?

These are the same questions I had, back when I thought the only response to “I don’t date short guys” was to walk away with my tail between my legs…

… though this video gave me all the answers I needed:

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